How to Repair and Restore Love

Look for the truth of what is happening in your heart and your gut, and be willing to travel through the unfolding layers of your emotional pain and fear to the deepest levels of awareness you can access to uncover it . . . Understand that where love isn’t, the real challenge for transformational healing and greater wholeness is . . .

Know the Truth About Denial

I am greatly concerned about our ability to fully experience and freely share in the nature of love in our twisting and breaking times.  So much is written about the breakdown of systems – is the real global challenge most keenly experienced by us all fundamentally about the breakdown of love?

This is the great challenge of our world, is it not?  We live in a world of love and loss, which has stayed stuck as a world that swings in and out of denial.

Love Always Is

In spiritual terms, love is a given.  It exists in an endless present, and ironically, when our lives are truly threatened and we experience the loss of what we love the most, we can come to most greatly understand that.

My life continues to insist on presenting this truth in my face again and again, once more blazing forth in  this light-filled, intense, peaking summer.  Once again I am struck by the searing pain of recognition, the open gaping wound of loss and all the stages of grief that come with it .

What Happens When Love is Broken

My body trembles and cracks open.  My feelings rush to the surface, and I fall into my own surprising pit.

Time and space disappear, and I and my working life grind to a halt.  Other goals and dreams, tasks and connections, fall away.

The Breaking Point of Love is the Breaking Challenge to Heal

Are we really here to repair love?  Is all that plagues us to the point of loss of function and dis-ease really a soul challenge to have to find the core cracks that lead down to the infinite hole where all that sustains and supports life, creation, healing and development can’t enter?

This is what I have to offer you through my own breaking challenge to support whatever your current challenges may be for healing and development.  This is all we can really share and bring to our world as we come to know how to repair love:

Explore These Three Transformational Centers to  Repair and Restore Love

1.  Honor and support – which means to fully and directly express without limit – your feelings.

2.  Look for the truth of what is happening in your heart and your gut, and be willing to travel through the unfolding layers of your emotional pain and fear to the deepest levels of awareness you can access to uncover it.

3.  Understand that where love isn’t, the real challenge for transformational healing and greater wholeness is . . .

.  .  .  For love seeks always to repair itself, to extend, uplift, clarify, restore  .  . .  and when we repair ourselves and our lives, so do we greatly participate in repairing the world.

Namaste, Marjorie

3 Comments

  1. That was so wonderfully expressed. Some times I find myself wondering “what” to do about the lack of love in peoples lives. So hearing you say “Love Always Is”, reminds me how true it is. Recently I’ve met some friends who don’t believe in God, and it made me wonder. I know there are many people with different beliefs, but I wondered if there are any people who do not believe Love exists.

  2. It may be that.. “Love Always Is”, but finding it and knowing love is not always as easy. Sometimes love hurts and those that we love may not realize that they are being hurtful. We continue to love even though it hurts, but knowing that you are loved is not always apparent unless you have experienced it. We are taught that God loves, but knowing it is another thing. Sometimes it’s from time to time we know for sure and other times we are unsure. It depends on what is happening in our lives at the time. If you are not experiencing love then we can not know love.

  3. Yes, Belinda, this is a central and multidimensional challenge that, to be able to resolve, carries us through quite an amazing and complicated, risky odyssey – which can make for miraculous resolutions and key growth as they can occur! Thanks your thoughtful and honest insights – I hope you’re enjoying your summer in your beautiful place – Love and light, Marjorie

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