Centering Tools: Holistic Counseling since 1987
Holistic counseling practice since 1987
In the recent survey so many of you completed through subscribing to the Centering Tools newsletter, you talked a lot about your struggles with “staying on track” – how the “little (and not so little!) things throw you off. When that happens, we lose our “center”, which rapidly becomes losing our sense of self.
Over and over again in my work with clients, we uncover what is an overwhelmingly common core conflict. It always comes down to fundamentally not accepting yourself.
From this awareness we then link and understand that this is delusional and bullying behavior that sets the stage for further violating, blaming, victimizing, rationalizing, and addictive responses.
Can Self-Acceptance Be the Key to Becoming Whole?
We always live our life in paradoxes and in multiple dimensions. Frequently when life gets us down through its tough, tragic “peaks” we lose sight, for many understandable reasons, of other, opposite dimensions that are there to sustain and support us, often in surprising ways.
Ten Ways to Set Yourself Free
Here are the ten paradoxical truths, each with their “pair of opposites” that I want to share with you to break the bonds of love in order to more greatly love, speaking of paradoxes! I thank countless clients for discovering and sharing these, as they’ve benefitted so greatly in their transformational journeys, through our work in the 25 years of Centering Tools, about the real nature of love:
The biggest challenge clients bring to me is the challenge to trust and feel emotionally safe. In this upcoming celebration Feb 14 of “Heart’s Day”, who has not had the experience, now or in the past, of whether or not to open your heart to let someone – even if you haven’t even met them yet – into your heart?
Magic exists in space. The sacred emerges in space . . . as I continue to call myself “a trekkie from way back”; protecting and nurturing our innate space really is the final frontier, and the matrix in which we truly can spread our wings and fly . . .
Are You Up to the Supreme Sacrifice? Maybe it really is the supreme sacrifice. Nothing really is, in analytical terms, perfect – nothing goes “perfectly”. Life isn’t perfect. Death isn’t perfect. Nobody’s Perfect Love isn’t perfect. Work isn’t perfect. Health isn’t perfect. We aren’t perfect. Can You Face – Even Live with the Truth? There …
How to Return to Love and Being Loved We are only capable of truly loving when we unconditionally love ourselves and all others as being part of the same divine union. On this Valentine’s Day 2009, when the world is full of peaking global crises, can we dare return to an inviolate space to love …
Accept and Love Yourself Physical: $13.97 .MP3: $9.97 Experience this healing guided meditation hypnosis audio to create a soul miracle for you of recovery – your heart’s desire to unconditionally love and accept yourself just as you are. This restores your power to be fully present in the world, to share, respond and create your …